Past the past

When good therapy advice makes things worse

Why correct advice can fail or even backfire when it is given without understanding the psychological function of the behavior.

Aug 17 • MiriamB

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The ultimate guide to healing your insecure attachment

A step-by-step guide on what works, what doesn't and what you can expect when trying to become securely attached

Aug 11 • MiriamB

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July 2026

Free resources

Check in for quizzes, guides and exercises that invite to reflection

Jul 16 • MiriamB

Why Knowing Your Attachment Style Isn’t Enough

Podcast episode on perfectionism, renouncing what harms us, why we are attached to being "perfect" and attachment

Jul 14 • MiriamB

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April 2026

Study on relationship experiences after the ideal parent figure protocol

Take part in the first independent online study exploring how the Ideal Parent Figure Protocol shapes relationship experiences

Apr 15 • MiriamB

March 2026

Free attachment style quiz + personalized assessment

If you keep falling into the same patterns in relationships, even when you understand what’s happening, your attachment pattern may be part of the…

Mar 21 • MiriamB

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The strange wisdom of unhealthy habits

What if choosing the donuts saved your life

Mar 9 • MiriamB

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February 2026

Why insight alone doesn’t change relationship patterns

+ and what actually does

Feb 24 • MiriamB

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January 2026

Recovering from narcissistic abuse

Everything you need to know after experiencing the aftermath of narcissism.

Jan 25 • MiriamB

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Resist the urge to kill the old self

On healing from emotional abuse

Jan 7 • MiriamB

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December 2025

When success doesn't fix low self esteem

Some people’s worst nightmare is reaching success and finding out it is not all that.

Dec 2, 2025 • MiriamB

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August 2025

Help! I’m Anxious — How Do I Stop Dating Avoidants?

The clues are there. You can detect avoidance and security in your potential dates from the very first conversation.

Aug 28, 2025 • MiriamB

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