Work with me
Hi, I’m Miriam, an attachment expert, researcher, and trauma-informed coach who helps highly functional individuals make sense of their relationships, become securely attached, and stop living in survival mode, even when resources are plentiful.
If you feel stuck in relationship patterns or in how you experience yourself around others, this work is designed to help you change that.
I might be the right person for you if:
…you recently learned about attachment theory and suspect you may have an insecure attachment and are unsure what to do about it
…you have a history of relational difficulties. You might be finding it hard to find partners who love you in a healthy way or find it difficult not to self-sabotage relationships.
…you recently went through a breakup and want to learn how to “date better” so you’ll end up in the relationship of your dreams.
…your self-esteem is entirely decided by your performance at any given time, whether it is work performance, social performance, or simply getting validation from strangers and loved ones.
…you suspect you grew up in an abusive and/or neglectful environment and are now seeing some of the patterns from your household unfolding into your own life.
…you struggle with rescuing others and would love to learn how to give yourself the same amount of love and effort you give others.
If this already resonates, you can request a free 15-minute consultation below.
In other words, I help people uncover the unconscious mechanisms and unresolved inner conflicts that prevent them from being happy and accomplishing their full potential. I also help them find real ways in which they can fulfill their unmet needs so they no longer feel stuck in lives that don’t feel like theirs.
In my work, I use elements from the Ideal Parent Figure Protocol, psychodynamic therapy, and attachment-related therapies.
You can learn more about me and my attachment research projects on my about page.
Next steps
If this resonates, you can request a free 15-minute consultation below to explore whether this is a good fit. Most of the people I work with already have insight, but still find themselves repeating the same patterns.
Complete the short form to request a free 15-minute consultation call to explore fit.
If we decide to work together, sessions are structured as follows:
The fee is €150 per 50-minute individual session.
All sessions are held online via a secure platform.
Prefer email? You can also reach me at helpwithmiriam@gmail.com.
Q&A
Where are all of the sessions held?
All sessions take place on a private, secure healthcare platform. You will receive a personal link before your first appointment.
What happens in the first sessions? What should I expect?
In the beginning, we take time to get to know each other. We explore what brings you here, but the pace is always set by you.
Typically, we start by uncovering your current psychological map and how it has served you so far. We may also talk about your goals and how I plan to help you reach them.
What’s your communication style or attitude? Who speaks the most? How do we interact with each other?
My style is active, attuned, and structured. I offer gentle but direct guidance that helps you see patterns clearly and make meaningful change.
I guide my clients beyond the typical “How does this make you feel?” as the nature of the modalities I use is different than regular coaching or talk therapy, but I also allow my clients to speak their minds and create space for them to shed their burdens.
I didn’t answer all your questions on here? Feel free to book a consult or ask more at helpwithmiriam@gmail.com.